Cheeky Butler vs Cheeky Dancer

Let’s face it—planning a bachelorette or birthday party isn’t always as easy as picking a theme and popping the Prosecco. There’s girls who fly in late, some who are wild and crazy, and others who want to read by the pool. Some are shy, some are not, some girls know eachother very well, whilst others are strangers. Some are onboard to get wild with some handsome men in the house, while others run from the chaos. Sometimes, choosing the right entertainment can feel like walking a tightrope in heels after two espresso martinis.

That’s where The Cheeky Butlers and The Cheeky Dancers come in. They may sound similar, but trust us—they bring totally different flavors to the party. No party is the same. You your raunchy wild girls from Texas, your chill LA crowd, and the funky crew from Austin, all wanting different things and having different levels of comfortability. Every scenario is different and I'm about to share with you some that we have come across typically and which is better...

Scenario one: A laid-back bachelorette weekend in a Miami Airbnb with mix of college friends, a few coworkers, and a future mother-in-law who’s cooler than most 30-year-olds.The bride-to-be wants “a little spice, but nothing too wild.” Half the guests aren’t really the "lap dance" type, so the solution was easy:

Cheeky Butlers for a classy but cheeky twist. They served drinks, hosted hilarious party games, and even helped organize a “suck for a buck” game that had the whole group giggling like teenagers. The butlers struck the perfect balance between sexy and respectful, making sure everyone felt included—even Grandma, who got a photo with both of them (and made it her Facebook profile picture).

Scenario 2: A birthday bash in Scottsdale for a tight-knit group of 8 best friends. Half in the group are wild and ready to party, others are more reserved (but still wanted something special). The Cheeky Butlers to the rescue. They showed up in bow ties and aprons, ready to mingle, pour mimosas, and host party trivia. They matched the energy of the group perfectly—flirty with the wild ones, charming and respectful with the shy ones. There was even some bodyshots and lapdances!

Scenario 3: A bachelorette weekend in Nashville with 12 women, all ready to live their Magic Mike fantasy.The Problem: They did not want to hold back at all and wanted all of it! They all just finished reading 50 Shades of Grey and haven't been to Vegas since COVID. They wanted fun! originally booked butlers, but quickly realized—nah, they wanted dancing, grinding, and entertainment.

The Cheeky Dancers put on a full show, with choreographed routines, interactive moments, and even a lap dance for the bride. The whole house turned into a club, and it was exactly the wild night they dreamed of. The butlers would’ve been too tame for this crowd—but the dancers nailed it.

There is something for everyone. Find out who is in your crew, and adjust to see which solution would fit your needs best! With summer around the corner, get ready to start living your wildest fantasies!