The Cheeky Butlers
Your naughty party entertainment partner
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Ready to experience the Empire State of Mind with a side of "cheeky"? From the concrete jungle of Manhattan to the salt-air luxury of Montauk, New York is the undisputed heavyweight champion of celebrations. If you’re hunting for the best bachelorette party ideas in NYC, you know the drill: sky-high rooftop bars, underground speakeasies, and world-class dining. But why stop at the city limits?
Heading "Out East" to The Hamptons and Long Island is the ultimate power move. Think private yacht charters, vineyard tours in the North Fork, and pool parties where the rosé flows like water. To truly elevate your event—be it a divorce party, milestone birthday, or a hen do—you need a touch of class and a lot of sass. If you're planning a bachelorette party in NYC, a high-stakes birthday in The Hamptons, or a wild girls' weekend on Long Island, this is your ultimate blueprint for a weekend that would make a Gossip Girl episode look like a library session.
That’s where The Cheeky Butlers come in. Our Buff Butlers are the perfect addition to your Hamptons rental or NYC penthouse. Whether they’re serving signature cocktails in the buff (almost!), hosting cheeky party games, or managing the BBQ at your Montauk beach house, our butlers ensure the energy stays high and the champagne stays cold.
Clubs & unique dining experiences
Tao Downtown (Chelsea, NYC) – A massive, subterranean Pan-Asian "temple" featuring a 16-foot Buddha and a high-energy nightclub hidden within.
75 Main (Southampton) – The ultimate Hamptons "see and be seen" spot, blending upscale Italian-American dining with a celebrity-filled lounge atmosphere.
The Surf Lodge (Montauk) – A world-famous waterfront hotel and restaurant known for its bohemian-chic deck parties and live sunset concert series.
Buddakan (Meatpacking, NYC) – An opulent, grand dining hall serving modern Asian cuisine in a space that feels like a 16th-century Parisian palace. |
Southampton Social Club (Southampton) – A hybrid fine-dining restaurant and high-energy lounge featuring South Beach-inspired cabanas and a bustling dance floor.
Paradise Club (Times Square, NYC) – A modern-day cabaret at the EDITION Hotel that fuses Michelin-starred dining with immersive theatrical performances and late-night DJ sets.
Calissa (Water Mill) – Known as "Mykonos in the Hamptons," this venue offers Aegean-chic decor, Greek seafood, and a lively outdoor terrace with live music. |
Lavo NYC (Midtown, NYC) – A powerhouse Italian restaurant upstairs with a world-class, high-octane basement nightclub perfect for champagne showers. |
Navy Beach (Montauk) – A casual-chic beachfront eatery on Fort Pond Bay where guests can dine with their toes in the sand and watch the best sunsets in the East End. |
The Paramount (Huntington, LI) – A premier music hall and event space featuring a 1920s-style speakeasy called "The Founder's Room" for private group parties. |
cool things to do
Gurney’s Montauk Resort – The only true beach club in the Hamptons where you can party in a private cabana with direct ocean access.
Wölffer Estate Vineyard – Sip their famous "Summer in a Bottle" rosé at a private table overlooking the lush vines of Sagaponack.
HampTiki Boat Charters – A floating tiki bar that cruises the Sag Harbor bays, perfect for a boozy afternoon on the water.
The William Vale Rooftop – Start with a "yoga and mimosas" session overlooking the Manhattan skyline from this iconic Brooklyn hotel.
Classic Harbor Line Yachts – Charter a private luxury schooner or motor yacht for a cocktail cruise around the Statue of Liberty.
Perfect Picnic NYC – High-end, curated picnic setups in Central Park, complete with gourmet platters and luxury decor for your squad.
Greenport Harbor Brewing Co. – A staple of the North Fork brewery scene, offering industrial-chic vibes and live music for a laid-back afternoon.
Nightlife Icons & High-Energy Hubs
Le Bain at The Standard – A penthouse discotheque and rooftop bar in the Meatpacking District featuring a plunge pool on the dance floor.
PDT (Please Don't Tell) – A legendary NYC speakeasy accessed through a vintage phone booth inside a hot dog shop.
Little Sister Lounge – A moody, velvet-drenched underground lounge in the East Village that serves as a sophisticated late-night hideaway.
The Stephen Talkhouse – An intimate, world-renowned dive bar in Amagansett where you’ll find A-list celebs and incredible live rock bands.
Public Hotel Rooftop – A sleek, neon-lit rooftop bar and club with 360-degree views of the city and a very "fashion" crowd.
Marquee New York – A massive multi-level nightclub in Chelsea with a massive LED wall and top-tier global DJs.
Unique & Interactive Adventures
DJ Chef – A unique private party experience where a pro chef cooks a gourmet meal while simultaneously DJing a live set for your group.
The Artful Bachelorette – A "sip and sketch" class featuring a live male model—the perfect pairing for a Cheeky Butler.
House of Yes – A wild, immersive performance space and nightclub in Brooklyn known for circus acts, glitter, and outrageous theme parties.
Body & Pole – Private group classes in pole dancing and aerial arts in a world-class Manhattan studio. |
Drunk Shakespeare – An interactive theater show where one actor takes five shots of whiskey and tries to perform a play—chaos ensues.
Montauk Salt Cave – The ultimate "morning after" detox experience involving salt therapy and massage in an underground cave.
Lips NYC – The city’s ultimate drag brunch and dinner show, perfect for bachelorettes who want high-energy comedy and costumes.
Our Cheeky Butlers and professional event staff provide premium service across every major hotspot and hidden gem in the Big Apple and beyond, including:
Manhattan, Brooklyn, The Hamptons, Upper East Side, SoHo, The Meatpacking District, Tribeca, Chelsea, West Village, Greenwich Village, Midtown, Hell’s Kitchen, Williamsburg, DUMBO, Bushwick, Greenpoint, Harbor East, Central Park, The Financial District (FiDi), Montauk, East Hampton, Bridgehampton, Southampton, The Pierre, The Plaza, Standard High Line, Soho House NYC, 230 Fifth Rooftop, The Glasshouse, Gotham Hall.
We provide bespoke support for any high-end gathering. Bachelorette parties. Bachelor weekends. Birthday bashes. Milestone celebrations. Anniversaries. Product launches. Brand activations. Corporate events. Executive retreats. Company mixers. Networking galas. In-home private dinners. Pool parties. Beach bonfire service. Holiday parties. Wedding welcome drinks. Rehearsal dinners. Bridal showers. Engagement parties. VIP hospitality suites. Charity fundraisers. Grand openings. Art gallery showings. Luxury yacht charters. Vacation rental takeovers.