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New York, NY · Manhattan to The Hamptons

Male strippers, party butlers & cabana boys in New York

For New York bachelorettes, birthdays and girls' trips. We come to your Airbnb, hotel suite or pool, and you set how cheeky it gets.

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Welcome to New York

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Ready to experience the Empire State of Mind with a side of cheeky? From the concrete jungle of Manhattan to the salt-air luxury of Montauk, New York is the undisputed heavyweight champion of celebrations. If you're hunting for the best bachelorette party ideas in NYC, you know the drill: sky-high rooftop bars, underground speakeasies, and world-class dining. But why stop at the city limits?

Heading Out East to The Hamptons and Long Island is the ultimate power move. Think private yacht charters, vineyard tours in the North Fork, and pool parties where the rose flows like water. To truly elevate your event — be it a divorce party, milestone birthday, or a hen do — you need a touch of class and a lot of sass. If you're planning a bachelorette party in NYC, a high-stakes birthday in The Hamptons, or a wild girls' weekend on Long Island, this is your ultimate blueprint.

That's where The Cheeky Butlers come in. Our Buff Butlers are the perfect addition to your Hamptons rental or NYC penthouse. Whether they're serving signature cocktails in the buff (almost!), hosting cheeky party games, or managing the BBQ at your Montauk beach house, our butlers ensure the energy stays high and the champagne stays cold.

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Your New York entertainer

Who we send to New York

Every one of these comes to you, anywhere in New York — your Airbnb, your hotel suite, your pool deck.

Any occasion

What we host in New York

New York gives you the rooftops, the speakeasies and the skyline. We handle the hours in between — getting ready, pre-drinks, games, the last hour before the cars arrive. That is the part most groups remember.

Bachelorette partiesThe reason most groups call

Birthday partiesAny age, any excuse

Pool partiesCabana boy territory

Girls' tripsThe night in, done properly

Divorce parties Baby showers Bridal showers Engagement parties Rental takeovers Brand activations Corporate events

The New York party guide

Best things to do on a New York bachelorette

Our favourite spots, nights out and experiences. Book your butler for the part of the weekend that happens at your place.

Clubs & unique dining experiences

TAO DowntownA multi-level underground Asian bistro in Chelsea with a dramatic dining room, made for a big group dinner before a night out.

BuddakanPan-Asian dinner on Ninth Avenue in Chelsea, with shareable plates and specialty cocktails that suit a celebration table.

Le Bain at The StandardThe rooftop bar and discotheque atop The Standard, High Line in the Meatpacking District, with DJ dance nights and big views. 21+.

WestlightRooftop bar and restaurant on the 22nd floor of The William Vale in Williamsburg, looking straight across to the Manhattan skyline.

PDT (Please Don't Tell)The East Village speakeasy hidden beside Crif Dogs on St. Mark's Place. Small, secret and a fun reveal for the group.

House of YesA performance-fueled nightclub in Bushwick with aerialists, costumed themed nights and a dance floor that goes late.

Cool things to do

Classic Harbor Line1920s-style yachts sailing from Chelsea Piers year-round, with sunset, sightseeing and private charter cruises around the harbor.

SUMMIT One VanderbiltMirrored immersive art floors and the all-glass Ascent elevator high above Midtown, entered right from Grand Central.

Edge NYCThe outdoor sky deck at Hudson Yards with a glass floor, light installations and a skyline bar for a drink at the top.

QC NY SpaA year-round spa on Governors Island with outdoor thermal pools and seven saunas, a short ferry ride from Manhattan.

Drunk ShakespeareA comedy show where one actor drinks before performing Shakespeare and the rest of the cast keeps up. Pure group fun.

The Cheeky Butlers - New YorkButlers and dancers who come to your rental or hotel suite, mix the drinks, run the games and host the part of the night that happens before you go out.

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New York party FAQs

Do you come to our Airbnb or hotel in New York?

Yes. Your butler comes to you: your Airbnb, rental, hotel suite or pool in New York and the surrounding area. If he has to travel more than about an hour, any travel fee is quoted and agreed before you pay.

How far ahead should we book our New York party?

Three days out is the realistic minimum if you want us to guarantee someone. For weekends and peak season, book as early as you can.

How cheeky can it get?

You have complete say. Tell us the level you want, mild or wild, and how much he wears, and we match you with an entertainer who is comfortable with it. Mild is a completely normal booking.

How many butlers do we need?

Under ten guests, one butler is usually plenty. Bigger than that, two makes more sense so nobody is waiting for a drink. More than two? Text us and we will put something together.

Are your entertainers vetted?

Yes. Every Cheeky Butler is vetted and professional. Our entertainers do not provide sexual services, and nobody touches an entertainer without his permission.