The Cheeky Butlers
we make it impossible for boring parties to happen
Welcome to Long Island, ny
Ready to experience "The Island" with a side of "cheeky"? Long Island is the undisputed summer capital for New Yorkers and travelers alike who want a mix of coastal luxury and world-class entertainment. If you’re hunting for the best bachelorette party ideas on Long Island, you’re in the right place: we’re talking private vineyard tours in a limo, luxury yacht charters out of Sag Harbor, and mansion pool parties where the rosé never stops.
But a Long Island bash isn't just about the beach. From the elite boutiques of the Americana Manhasset to the historic glamour of the North Shore and the surfer-chic energy of Montauk, this island offers a backdrop for every squad. To truly elevate your stay—whether it’s a divorce party, milestone birthday, or a hen do—you need a touch of class and a lot of sass.
That’s where The Cheeky Butlers come in. Our Buff Butlers are the perfect addition to your Hamptons estate or your Long Beach loft. Whether they’re serving signature cocktails in the buff (almost!), hosting cheeky party games, or managing the poolside BBQ at your private villa, our butlers ensure the energy stays high while you live your best life in the 631 and 516.
Clubs & unique dining experiences
The Surf Lodge (Montauk) – An iconic waterfront destination known for its bohemian-chic decor, world-class sunset concert series, and elite social scene. |
75 Main (Southampton) – The ultimate "see and be seen" Italian-American eatery where celebrities and socialites gather for high-energy dining and late-night lounge vibes. |
Calissa (Water Mill) – Known as "Mykonos in the Hamptons," this stunning venue offers Aegean-chic decor, Mediterranean seafood, and an electric outdoor terrace party. |
Prime: An American Kitchen (Huntington) – A sophisticated waterfront steakhouse on the harbor featuring a glowing blue bar and a "Gold Coast" luxury atmosphere. |
Gurney’s Montauk Resort – The only true beach club in the Hamptons with private cabanas, fire pits, and a high-octane "feet-in-the-sand" party vibe. |
Salt & Barrel (Bay Shore) – A trendy, modern oyster bar and cocktail lounge with a "Great Gatsby" aesthetic and an elite mixology program. |
Southampton Social Club (Southampton) – A hybrid of fine dining and a high-energy nightclub with VIP cabanas and fire pits in a lush backyard setting. |
Navy Beach (Montauk) – A casual-chic beachfront eatery on Fort Pond Bay where guests dine on the sand and watch the most famous sunsets on the island. |
The Paramount (Huntington) – A premier music hall and social club featuring a 1920s-style speakeasy called "The Founder's Room" for private group experiences. |
Wölffer Estate Vineyard (Sagaponack) – The most famous winery on the island, offering a stunning terrace for sipping "Summer in a Bottle" rosé overlooking the vines. |
cool things to do
HampTiki Boat Charters: A private, floating tiki bar that cruises the bays of Sag Harbor and Shelter Island with a full sound system. |
North Fork Wine Tours: Luxury limo or bus transportation that provides a curated, door-to-door tasting experience at the island’s best vineyards. |
The Hamptons Picnic Co: High-end, Pinterest-perfect luxury picnic setups on the beach or at your rental, complete with custom decor and catering. |
The Artful Bachelorette: A "sip and sketch" class featuring a live male model—the perfect pairing for a Cheeky Butler. |
MonTiki Luxury Catamarans: Charter a private, eco-conscious sailing catamaran for a sophisticated sunset cocktail cruise in Montauk. |
Hamptons Pool Side Yoga: Private, mobile yoga instructors who come to your rental for a "Zen and Zinc" morning session by the pool. |
DJ Chef: A unique private party experience where a pro chef cooks a gourmet meal while simultaneously DJing a live set for your group. |
Island Time Mixology: Professional bartenders who come to your house or rental to lead a private group cocktail-making workshop. |
East End Mobile Spa: A full-service spa experience that travels to your rental, offering massages, facials, and mani-pedis for the whole squad. |
Hamptons Bachelorette Decorating: Full-service room and rental transformations including balloon arches, themed decor, and "bride-to-be" setups. |
Diva Royale Long Island: High-energy drag brunch and dinner shows that can be booked for private group takeovers in Huntington or Patchogue. |
North Fork Helicopter Tours: For the ultimate "power move," book a private aerial tour of the lighthouses and mansions for the squad. |
Montauk Salt Cave: A 20-ton pink salt sanctuary perfect for a group "morning after" detox session to recharge before the next party. |
Custom Cookie Bar: Mobile dessert stations that come to your party to serve custom-decorated bachelorette cookies and sweets. |
LI Party Bus: High-end, nightclub-style transportation to shuttle your squad between the vineyards and the beach clubs. |
Tarot by the Sea: Private, intuitive tarot card readings at your beach house for a mystical "girls' night in" experience. |
Coastal Glow Spray Tanning: Mobile spray tan artists who come to your rental to ensure the whole squad has that "Hamptons Bronze" before the pool party. |
The Paddleboard Co: Private group paddleboarding tours through the calm waters of the Peconic Bay or Stony Brook Harbor. |
Hamptons Private Chef: Luxury in-home dining where a chef prepares a 5-star meal using local farm-to-table Long Island ingredients.
Beach Bonfire Service: Professional setup of a legal, luxury beach bonfire in Montauk or Southampton, complete with s'mores and seating. |
Our Cheeky Butlers and professional event staff provide premium service across every major hotspot and hidden gem on the Island, including: Southampton, East Hampton, Montauk, Sag Harbor, Bridgehampton, Water Mill, Westhampton Beach, Greenport, Jamesport, North Fork, Huntington, Long Beach, Patchogue, Fire Island, Port Jefferson, Garden City, The Gold Coast, Gurney’s Resort, The Surf Lodge, Baron’s Cove, and luxury oceanfront rentals throughout Nassau and Suffolk Counties.
We provide bespoke support for any high-end gathering: Bachelorette parties. Bachelor weekends. Birthday bashes. Milestone celebrations. Anniversaries. Product launches. Brand activations. Corporate events. Executive retreats. Company mixers. Networking galas. In-home private dinners. Pool parties. Beach bonfire service. Holiday parties. Wedding welcome drinks. Rehearsal dinners. Bridal showers. Engagement parties. VIP hospitality suites. Charity fundraisers. Grand openings. Art gallery showings. Luxury yacht charters. Vacation rental takeovers.