The Cheeky Butlers
we make it impossible for boring parties to happen
Welcome to San francisco
Elevating a San Francisco bachelorette party or a milestone Union Square birthday party requires a host who understands the city's sophisticated yet high-energy vibe. Whether you are hosting a Mission District bachelorette in a modern loft or a Nob Hill bridal shower in a historic estate, our penthouse butler service is the ultimate luxury upgrade.
From shaking up artisanal cocktails before you head to a Bay Area girls trip dinner to providing top-tier luxury yacht charter entertainment on the Bay, our Cheeky Butlers handle the logistics so you don't have to. We even offer the perfect Napa Valley bachelorette pre-game service, ensuring your group is pampered and toasted before the limo arrives. For luxury event hosting in SF, we are the "cheeky" secret to a flawless celebration.
Clubs & unique dining experiences
Foreign Cinema: (Mission District) An iconic SF staple featuring outdoor films, an oyster bar, and a magical industrial-chic courtyard.
Wayfare Tavern: (FiDi) Tyler Florence’s flagship offering upscale American "San Francisco Golden Age" vibes—famous for the fried chicken.
The Tonga Room & Hurricane Bar: (Nob Hill) A legendary tiki institution in the Fairmont Hotel featuring an indoor lagoon and "tropical rainstorms."
Lazy Bear: (Mission) A two-Michelin-starred "modern American dinner party" where guests sit at communal elm tables.
Leo’s Oyster Bar: (FiDi) Incredibly photogenic, retro-glam tropical decor—perfect for a high-fashion bridal luncheon.
Waterbar: (Embarcadero) Offering the best views of the Bay Bridge lights alongside sustainable, high-end seafood.
Farmhouse Kitchen Thai: (Mission) Known for being "well-behaved people rarely make history," this spot is vibrant, colorful, and loud—perfect for parties.
State Bird Provisions: (Fillmore) A Michelin-starred experience served dim-sum style; inventive, high-energy, and always a crowd-pleaser.
El Techo: (Mission) A heated rooftop oasis serving Latin American street food with panoramic views of the skyline.
China Live: (Chinatown) An interactive, multi-level culinary destination that is the "Eataly of Chinese food."
cool things to do
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Winery Hopping on Treasure Island: Get the "Napa experience" with heavy pours and skyline views without the 90-minute drive.
Picnic at Dolores Park: The ultimate SF people-watching spot; grab local beers and snacks and soak in the Mission sun.
Private Bay Cruise with City Cruises: Sail under the Golden Gate Bridge while your Butler serves the bubbly.
Late Night Karaoke at The Mint: Often voted the best karaoke bar in the city—no cover and a legendary, supportive atmosphere.
Shopping Spree at Union Square: Visit flagship luxury stores like Tiffany & Co. and Louis Vuitton.
After Dark at the California Academy of Sciences: An 21+ Thursday night event with cocktails, DJs, and an indoor rainforest.
Retro Arcade Night at Emporium: A massive theater turned into an arcade bar—perfect for a competitive "team bride" night.
The Castro Bar Crawl: Experience the world's most famous LGBTQ+ neighborhood with stops at Hi Tops and Moby Dick.
Guided North Beach Food Tour: Eat your way through "Little Italy" with cannolis and cocktails.
Sunset at Baker Beach: The absolute best spot for the iconic "Bridge in the background" group photo.
Cable Car Ride to Lombard Street: Take the California line for shorter queues and better views of the hills.
Cocktails at The View Lounge: Located atop the Marriott Marquis, featuring massive arched windows overlooking the city.
Dance at Raven Bar: A two-story SoMa club playing 90s and 2000s throwback hits—bachelorette heaven.
Alcatraz Night Tour: Spooky, historic, and offers the best night views of the SF skyline.
Spark Social SF Food Truck Park: Rent a fire pit and enjoy a "living room" vibe with 20+ food trucks and a beer garden.
Luxury Spa Day at Burke Williams: A world-class spa right in the heart of the city for a "reset" morning.
Painted Ladies & Alamo Square: Channel your inner Full House with a picnic in front of the famous Victorian homes.
Ferry to Sausalito: Spend the afternoon in "The Hamptons of SF" for seaside dining and boutique shopping.
Exploratorium After Dark: Get hands-on with science exhibits at Pier 15 while holding a craft cocktail.
Drag Brunch at 620 Jones: A massive outdoor patio in the Tenderloin with high-energy drag performances and bottomless mimosas.
Book day passes or cabanas for a luxury poolside experience.
Our Cheeky Butlers and professional event staff provide premium service across every major hotspot and hidden gem in the City by the Bay, including:
Union Square, The Mission District, SoMa (South of Market), Nob Hill, The Marina District, North Beach, The Financial District (FiDi), Pacific Heights, The Castro, Hayes Valley, Dogpatch, Fisherman’s Wharf, Embarcadero, Haight-Ashbury, The Presidio, Ghirardelli Square, Fairmont San Francisco, The Westin St. Francis, The Palace Hotel, The Midway, The Pearl SF, City View at Metreon, Pier 27, The Hibernia, The Regency Center, Rooftop at Hotel Via, Charmaine’s Rooftop, Tonga Room, Foreign Cinema, Oracle Park.
We provide bespoke support for any high-end gathering in San Francisco:
Bachelorette parties. Bachelor weekends. Birthday bashes. Milestone celebrations. Anniversaries. Product launches. Brand activations. Corporate events. Executive retreats. Company mixers. Networking galas. In-home private dinners. Pool parties. Beach bonfire service. Holiday parties. Wedding welcome drinks. Rehearsal dinners. Bridal showers. Engagement parties. VIP hospitality suites. Charity fundraisers. Grand openings. Art gallery showings. Luxury yacht charters. Vacation rental takeovers.