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SAN DIEGO

San Diego, CA · the Gaslamp Quarter to La Jolla

Male strippers, party butlers & cabana boys in San Diego

For San Diego bachelorettes, birthdays and girls' trips. We come to your Airbnb, hotel suite or pool, and you set how cheeky it gets.

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Welcome to San Diego

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San Diego is easily one of the best cities in the U.S. for bachelorette parties, big birthday weekends, and unforgettable girls' getaways. With perfect weather year-round, gorgeous beaches, insane sunsets, trendy restaurants, lively bars, rooftop lounges, and one of the most walkable nightlife scenes in California, San Diego really is the full package. Whether your crew wants beach clubs, boat parties, rooftop brunches, party entertainment, poolside chill days, or craft cocktails before a night in the Gaslamp Quarter, this city delivers the perfect celebration vibe every time.

What makes San Diego such a popular destination for celebration trips is the mix of laid-back California beach energy and vibrant nightlife. You can go from mimosas in Pacific Beach, to a yacht cruise through Mission Bay, to tacos in La Jolla, to dancing in Gaslamp — all in one day. It's extremely group-friendly, with restaurants and clubs that are used to hosting bachelorette parties and birthday crews every single weekend.

The city also stands out because of the neighbourhoods — each one offering a totally different energy. Gaslamp Quarter has nightclubs, rooftops and the city's hottest nightlife. Pacific Beach is perfect for beach bars and day drinking. La Jolla brings upscale dining and luxury views. Little Italy has incredible restaurants and cocktails. And Mission Bay is the yacht capital where so many groups book their boat parties.

The Gaslamp QuarterLittle ItalyLa JollaPacific Beach (PB)North ParkCoronado IslandLiberty StationMission BeachEast VillageHillcrestDel MarOcean BeachPoint LomaThe Marina District

Your San Diego entertainer

Who we send to San Diego

Every one of these comes to you, anywhere in San Diego — your Airbnb, your hotel suite, your pool deck.

Any occasion

What we host in San Diego

San Diego gives you the beach bars, the rooftops and the sunsets on the water. We handle the hours in between — getting ready, pre-drinks, games, the last hour before the cars arrive. That is the part most groups remember.

Bachelorette partiesThe reason most groups call

Birthday partiesAny age, any excuse

Pool partiesCabana boy territory

Girls' tripsThe night in, done properly

Divorce parties Baby showers Bridal showers Engagement parties Rental takeovers Brand activations Corporate events

The San Diego party guide

Best things to do on a San Diego bachelorette

Our favourite spots, nights out and experiences. Book your butler for the part of the weekend that happens at your place.

Clubs & unique dining experiences

Kettner ExchangeTwo-level Little Italy spot with a rooftop, craft cocktails and harbor views; rooftop cabanas and bottle service for groups.

Born & RaisedLittle Italy steakhouse on India Street, the dress-up dinner of the weekend with classic cuts and cocktails.

The Nolen14th-floor rooftop bar downtown with views from Petco Park to the Coronado Bridge, plus weekend brunch.

WaterbarOceanfront Pacific Beach restaurant and bar serving social seafood and sushi with a lively beach-town crowd.

Moonshine FlatsDowntown country bar with line dancing and late nights Thursday through Saturday, made for a boots-on night out.

Parakeet CafeBright, healthy cafe with San Diego spots in Little Italy, La Jolla, Del Mar and more, a pretty pick for brunch.

Cool things to do

La Jolla KayakGuided kayak tours to the La Jolla sea caves, including sunset paddles and kayak-and-snorkel trips.

Flagship Cruises & EventsSan Diego Bay harbor tours plus dinner and brunch cruises, and private events on the water for groups.

Balboa Park1,200 acres of gardens, trails and 17 museums and cultural institutions, easy for a slow afternoon wander.

Urban MO's Bar & GrillHillcrest bar known for drag, from the weekly DreamGirls Revue to a drag brunch with bottomless mimosas.

The Flower FieldsCarlsbad's hillside ranunculus fields, open each spring (March to May) for a colorful group photo stop.

The Cheeky Butlers - San DiegoButlers and dancers who come to your rental or hotel suite, mix the drinks, run the games and host the part of the night that happens before you go out.

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San Diego party FAQs

Do you come to our Airbnb or hotel in San Diego?

Yes. Your butler comes to you: your Airbnb, rental, hotel suite or pool in San Diego and the surrounding area. If he has to travel more than about an hour, any travel fee is quoted and agreed before you pay.

How far ahead should we book our San Diego party?

Three days out is the realistic minimum if you want us to guarantee someone. For weekends and peak season, book as early as you can.

How cheeky can it get?

You have complete say. Tell us the level you want, mild or wild, and how much he wears, and we match you with an entertainer who is comfortable with it. Mild is a completely normal booking.

How many butlers do we need?

Under ten guests, one butler is usually plenty. Bigger than that, two makes more sense so nobody is waiting for a drink. More than two? Text us and we will put something together.

Are your entertainers vetted?

Yes. Every Cheeky Butler is vetted and professional. Our entertainers do not provide sexual services, and nobody touches an entertainer without his permission.